Support for Families Affected by Domestic Abuse or Violence

At OLSK, we believe that every person is made in the image of God and deserves to live in safety, dignity, and peace. We recognise that domestic abuse and violence can affect families from all backgrounds, and we are committed to walking alongside parents and carers with compassion, care, and respect.

Domestic abuse can include emotional, physical, sexual, financial, or controlling behaviour. It is never acceptable and is not part of God’s plan for loving relationships. Abuse can affect adults and children, even when children do not directly witness it.

Our Commitment as a Catholic School

Guided by Gospel values of love, justice, and care for the most vulnerable, we aim to:

• provide a safe and welcoming environment for all families
• listen with kindness and without judgement
• support children’s emotional and spiritual wellbeing
• help families access specialist support when needed
• act to keep children safe, in line with safeguarding guidance

You are not expected to cope on your own. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not failure.

How We Can Support You

If you or your family are affected by domestic abuse, the school can offer support in a calm, confidential, and non‑judgemental way.

We will:

• listen to your concerns in confidence
• support your child’s emotional wellbeing in school
• make reasonable adjustments to routines if needed
• help you access specialist support services
• work with you and relevant professionals to keep children safe

You do not need to share details if you are not ready. Any information shared will be treated sensitively and only passed on if required to protect a child or adult from harm.

Talking to School

If you would like support, you can speak to:

• The Designated Safeguarding Lead (DSL) - Mrs Finnegan
• A Deputy Designated Safeguarding Lead (DDSL) - Mrs Turner, Mr Hyde or Mrs Fairfax
• your child’s class teacher or key adult, who can help you access the right support.

​​​​​​​If you ask for help, we will:

• listen without judgement
• explain what support is available
• take steps to keep information private

Keeping Children Safe

Children may be affected by domestic abuse in different ways, such as:

• anxiety, distress, or withdrawal
• changes in behaviour
• difficulty concentrating or sleeping

Our staff are trained to respond with care and understanding. Supporting parents and carers is an important part of helping children feel safe and settled in school.

Specialist Support Services

You may find it helpful to contact one of the following free and confidential services:

📞 National Domestic Abuse Helpline

0808 2000 247 (24 hours)
Support for anyone experiencing domestic abuse.

📞 NSPCC Helpline

0808 800 5000
Advice and support if you are worried about a child.

🌐 Women’s Aid

Local and national support services for women and children.

🌐 Men’s Advice Line

Support for men experiencing domestic abuse.

If you would like help contacting any of these services, the school can support you with this.

In an Emergency

If you or your child are in immediate danger, please call 999.

A Message of Hope

As a Catholic community, we believe deeply in hope, healing, and new beginnings. You are not alone.

If you need support, the school is here to help you and your family in a way that is caring, respectful, and guided by our faith.